Miss International 2008 Farewell Letter
I once heard that you can preach a better sermon with your life, than you can with your words. Therefore, I am and have used my life to serve as an example of confidence in living with a disability, or as I call it – a different ability.
It has been an incredible privilege and honor to serve as Miss International, and previously as Miss Missouri International. It has provided me with additional opportunities, in conjunction as a spokesperson for both Ability Beyond Disability and Special Olympics, to advocate on a global scale for different abilities (disabilities) through my programs – Abilities First and I CAN: Inspiring Confidence in Abilities Now.
In the past year and half, I have traveled over 150,000 miles visiting 4 different countries, and 168 cities allowing me the opportunity to assist in fundraising more than $15 million dollars for numerous charities. Given the gift of public speaking, I have worked with Pepsi, Pepsi Bottling Group, Hearing Loss Association of America, Central Institute for the Deaf, Starkey “So the World May Hear”, and many others. In addition, a personal highlight was meeting Warren Buffett.
While the extent of my reach has been great, the most memorable moments for me have always been attempting to learn French from Geoffrey, and the friendships I have made with the six gentlemen - Geoffrey, Mark, Keith, Michael, Gary, and Chad at Rich Drive with Ability Beyond Disability. They taught me how to play Wii, how to draw, and reminded me that I love trivia questions, but I am not a movie buff by any means. These treasured moments, along with conversations over pizza and cookies were my rewarding times in the midst of a busy schedule.
I loved hearing their stories, along with hearing the stories of several individuals with different abilities nationwide. Their words fueled my drive to continue to spread awareness and appreciation for different abilities (disabilities). To share a message of “I CAN” … that we can accomplish anything we set our minds to with early intervention, education, the right support group and a positive attitude, regardless of the obstacles or limitations that can come our way. It’s a message that is my passion, and my life!
It was predicted when I was born that I would never live a normal life. It’s true! Life, for me, is not normal. No, it’s extraordinary! A journey blessed by my spiritual creator, God who watched over me in my fight for life as a premature infant with numerous medical complications, and continues to watch over me in each adventure today. It is combined with a phenomenal support of my family – Randy, Marnelle, Ashley, Nancy, Connor, Marian, Ryan, Kayla, Harriet, Edna; and my friends/crew - Eve, Keitt, Jenny, Brian, Abby, Kelly, Layla, Alan, Alexi, Whitney, Courtney, Leah, Matt, Robin, Sharon, Lynda, Carol, Trish, Mark, John Tracy Clinic, Karen Rothwell-Vivian, Central Institute for the Deaf, Dr. William and Chris Clark, and many others who have been there for me every step of the way. I wouldn’t be where I am today without the love of God, my family, friends, and fabulous crew. You are all such an important part of my life!
I learned a long time ago that every person you meet has an impact on you, no matter how small. Mary and Mel Richardson – Thank you for your continued support and love throughout this past year. It is you two that provide a life changing journey for each young lady who becomes a part of our organization. Joey and Clay– Thank you for serving as incredible sponsors. Your services and support allow every lady to feel like royalty! Ability Beyond Disability, and Special Olympics – Thank you for the amazing opportunity to serve as a spokesperson for your organization. I am in awe of everything you do to support every person who comes to you! Cache, Massimo, Papillon Salon and Spa, Flemmings, and Aegis/MiTek - Thank you for serving as fantastic sponsors, and supporting me in this journey. Each of you contributed in your own special way, and together, we made a difference! Laine Berry – Thank you for serving as an incredible Mrs. International! You are a role model of perseverance and grace for heart survivors and pageant queens alike. It was a blessing to serve along side with you this past year! To my company, Aegis/MiTek and my fantastic boss, Tom – Thank you for your constant support, cooperation and patience. I couldn’t have juggled this year without your understanding! To all of the wonderful individuals that I have met along the way, and you know who you are… Thank you for your endless support and encouragement. I couldn’t have done it without you!
Remember … Never accept someone else's definition of you. Only you can define yourself and the life you want to live... the path you want to chart... and the difference you want to make in others lives. Create the life you dream of … and live it with passion! While we are not immune to life’s changes, both good and bad, we have the power to shape how we react to it, and how we will make a positive difference in the world around us. The future is shaped by those who
always believe in the power and beauty of their dreams!
Dare To Dream Big … Live Life with Passion … Make a Difference!






